Does the wine taste too ‘hot’ aka alcoholic? Try cooling it down. It doesn’t have any flavor? Try warming it up! Wine serving temperature greatly affects what flavors and aromas of the wine you’ll smell. Personal preference also matters. If you like drinking everything ice cold, go for it, but check out what you might be missing at warmer temps first. Generally speaking, wine snobs don’t like white wines to be too cold or reds to be too hot.
QUICK TIP: Lower quality wines can be better cooler, as potential aromatic flaws can be muted; the cooler a wine, the less aroma it will present. Bubbles are great ice-cold, but even higher-quality examples (i.e. vintage Champagne) should probably be served warmer.
Sparkling wine is traditionally served first, in lieu of a cocktail, before people sit down. I usually start with Champagne and then a cocktail, or vice versa. You can keep drinking bubbles throughout dinner, most people would proceed to a red or white wine once the meal has started. Follow this logic if you want to fly in undetected. But if you want to be remembered, be the guy drinking good Champagne with steak.
(90 ml – 120 ml) A full glass is 5-6 ounces, but a proper pour is actually half-of-that. There are two good reasons for this. First, you don’t want to over serve people. I know you have great drinking habits, but your mother-in-law may not. Also, if you’re serving full pours to a party of more than five, you’ll polish off a whole bottle before the 6th person! Sucks for them, I guess. Also, since you don’t know how much people want to drink, this means that you never put too much wine in a guest’s glass who’s too polite to refuse. Also, magnums are just two bottles, so they can be great choice for larger dinners.
A serious wine dinner will step-up in a sequence that generally goes from light whites, to rich whites, to rosés, to light reds, to high tannin reds and finally to dessert wine. Not all stops are mandatory! With the listed variety of wines above, you can easily consume close to a whole bottle of wine with just 3 oz. servings. Sound like fun? Host one yourself. Oh, and… if you’re polite, you won’t pull out your phone to take pictures. But if you’re like me, you’ll always have an ipad handy. Sorry, grandma.
Start with your grandmother, end with your teenage niece… errrr, I mean 21 year-old niece. Then, serve old fogies to young bucks. Walk clockwise around the table to serve your guests until you are dizzy. Ladies get first option because they usually peeter out first (unless they are my girlfriends, then you’re in trouble).
Ask your seat neighbors if they’d like a fill ‘er up before hitting your own glass. Don’t worry about your across-the-table neighbors unless they perk up. If this happens, get up from your seat and pour them more. You’ll get hero status if you do this.
Just like with food, if there is a last pour of wine that you really want, ask. Do something like this: “Would anyone like to share this last pour with me?” More than likely, other guests with social manners will insist you enjoy it all. Aren’t you are such a gentleperson!
The usual rule is that 1 guest will drink an entire bottle of wine (3-4 full glasses) throughout a proper meal. However, there’s more to it than that. Take a look around at the scene. Do you have a long table? You should make it easy for people to drink and have a bottle within reach.
Everyone I know who is in the biz recommends decanting red wines, especially full bodied red wines. Learn how to decant a bottle of wine. Sometimes it’s necessary if you’re dealing with an older (10 plus years) bottle of a thick-skinned red variety like Cabernet or Syrah that’s left a lot of sediment in the bottle. At the end of the day, it’s almost never a bad idea, unless you have a very old and delicate bottle that might fade in decanter before you get to it later in your meal.